¿How fast are you to loving?

We all are fast to underline that love is the power to turn the world, but we plunged into doubts before accepting its power in our lives, either a romantic love or a simple smile. ¿What kind of love is this? ¿Who wants to love me like this? ¿Who will I be if I accept this love? We are overcome by our materialistic society, where everything is accounted, and, like if love were not a manifestation of the humanity that we carry inside, we limit love and, therefore, we limit ourselves and the truly lived life that we dream about.

Our heart is a container for the infinite love of others and it's from this infinite that flows the same amount of love to give. ¿However, how many of us are too busy to stop and love unconditionally? There are so many items in our agenda and we believe that our time to relax must be lived seeing life go by. In fact, we forget that the act of giving unconditional love is more powerful than hours in vegetable mode, when we need revitalization. Indeed, if you premeditate about the reasons behind your daily commitments, you will probably realize that many of them are no more than obligations created when you were unable to say “no” or to ask yourself on time about their usefulness in your happiness.
 
¿How many limitations do you put forward the act of loving unconditionally?

¿How many limitations do you put forward the act of criticizing unconditionally?

¿If you agree that we should be made of love, where will you find strength to interrupt your day to criticize and, simultaneously, will you find different resistances to go outside and give love?

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The funny thing is that not infrequently we criticize searching for love. We criticize because a particular criticism is popular (we even want to be the first one detecting something and criticizing it). We criticize because we want people to agree with us and, consequently, to feel admired and cozy. We all know the feeling of belonging in this case is an illusion because who complains too much will probably criticize us as well.

If you face love as you face criticism, you don't know what love is. Unconditional love is not popular. You can count a lot of criticism on social media, ironically interspersed with phrases that encourage love (maybe like this post).

Love - either for your loved one or a person you find in an elevator - not always bear fruits. There will be times when you will only get tomatoes and the pain will make you question love again. Maybe criticism had already hurt you, maybe even doing more damage than love, but perhaps it wasn't enough to you give up on it.

Unconditional love can only be called so if you feel a kind of homecoming, a jubilant joy that will make you continue your way without looking back. Rewards of good actions are not necessary when your happiness is already complete.